arXiv · 2606.15460
"ChatGPT, help me draft a breakup text": The Covert Triad and Articulation Labor in AI-Assisted Romantic Communication
Abstract
Generative artificial intelligence (AI) has begun infiltrating the most ordinary domains of romantic life -- drafting apologies, softening reproaches, and decoding a partner's ambiguous messages. While recent scholarship on AI in intimate life has concentrated on chatbot companions, this article shifts the frame to AI as an intermediary in human-to-human romantic communication. Drawing on a multi-modal corpus of vernacular discourse from 2023 to 2026, we contribute two complementary concepts. The covert triad situates a structural change -- a relationship phenomenally dyadic but operationally triadic, with the third party visible only to the partner who deploys a model. Articulation labor names the mechanism whereby the expressive component of emotional labor -- converting felt experience into language that a partner can receive -- is increasingly delegated to AI, even as feeling labor remains lodged in the user. Authenticity, under these conditions, is being reconfigured from a property of linguistic authorship to one of emotional ownership, a shift actively contested.
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Skyler Wang, Isabella Luppi. 2026-06-13. "ChatGPT, help me draft a breakup text": The Covert Triad and Articulation Labor in AI-Assisted Romantic Communication. https://arxiv.org/abs/2606.15460
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