Learning to Coach for Experiential Learning
Language models can learn from experience, but raw solution trajectories are often too long and noisy to provide effective guidance. In this work, we propose Learning to Coach (L2C), a framework that trains a dedicated LLM-as-a-Coach to extract actionable experiential knowledge from an actor model's previous trajectory. The actor remains frozen, while the LLM-as-a-Coach is trained to maximize a reward given by the correctness of the actor's guided response. We study two such rewards: a same-instance reward, which improves subsequent responses on the original problem, and a cross-instance reward, which elicits knowledge that transfers to other instances. Across mathematical reasoning and interactive text-games, L2C consistently outperforms self-refinement and an untrained LLM-as-a-Coach. Running experiential learning for more iterations further improves accuracy and uses additional inference compute more effectively than enlarging the actor's decoding budget. The trained LLM-as-a-Coach also transfers to out-of-distribution tasks and adapts its guidance to the specific actor it coaches.