Product sets in sets of returns and positivity of symmetric ergodic averages
We study sets of (measurable) returns in countable groups $G$, namely sets of the form $\{g\in G:μ(A\cap T_gA)>0\}$ arising from measure-preserving actions. Extending a result of Bergelson, we show that sets of returns in $G\times G$ contain subsets of the form $B\times B$, where $B$ is large with respect to suitable notions of largeness that remain meaningful even for non-amenable groups. As a consequence, if $G$ is amenable, then every sufficiently large subset $A\subseteq G\times G$ satisfies $B\times B\subseteq AA^{-1}$ for some large set $B\subseteq G$. We also investigate when sets of returns in $G$ contain product sets $BB$ with $B$ large. In contrast with the Cartesian-product phenomenon above, this problem is considerably subtler in non-abelian groups and is closely connected to `symmetric correlation functions', namely functions of the form $g\mapsto μ(T_g^{-1}A\cap T_gA)$. We use this connection to show that, for broad classes of amenable groups - including finitely generated nilpotent groups and certain solvable non-nilpotent groups, every sufficiently large set $A\subseteq G$ contains a large subset $B$ satisfying $BB\subseteq AA^{-1}$. Finally, we establish polynomial analogues of these results for finitely generated nilpotent groups, extending earlier work of Bergelson and Ruzsa.